If you are looking for insightful parenting advice or tips in this post, I am afraid you will need to scroll down or look through my archives. You see, dear reader, I find myself in a somewhat unfamiliar position. As a social worker, I am used to giving help to those in need. As a result, I am unaccustomed to asking for help from others.
Despite this, current circumstances prompt me to reach out to you for help. We all know that in the current economy and state of our world, there are lots of hard working, wonderful people out there struggling -- I happen to be living with one of them. I am asking anyone out there reading this to send some positive mojo to The Mentor Mom household. Our entire family is in need and any kind thoughts, prayers and well wishes you might have to spare.
I want to take this opportunity to thank each and every one of you for your support over the last two years. Your comments, questions and private e-mails of support have prompted me to continue in my quest to be a better person. Words cannot adequately describe what this has meant to me. You guys are the best and I want you to know that you are appreciated -- even you "lurkers!"
here comes mojo......
NOW
Posted by: Dawn | February 15, 2008 at 10:21 PM
here comes mojo......
NOW
Posted by: Dawn | February 15, 2008 at 10:22 PM
It's 1 in the morning and i can't sleep. I love to sleep....why am I awake? I have one of those friends who is always there with a listening ear, gives invaluable advice, she would give you the shirt off her back if you needed one. Our circle of friends can bounce anything off her regarding parenting, relationships of all kinds, really about anything. She's the 'go to' person. She gives us 'mojo'. I wouldn't hesitate to call her to solicit positive energy, prayers or a listening ear to say "that really sucks". That doesn't make me a weak person. It means that I am blessed to have so many good people in my life to rely on that care for me. You, dear writer, are also blessed. This blog reaches millions of readers, but also remember to call on those who would be on your doorstep with diet coke and malibu in a second (provided she can also bring her children as her husband works night and day). Hang in there.
Posted by: carrie hovanec | February 16, 2008 at 01:21 AM
That's a tough position: hardworking, willing, yet struggling because the economy is going downhill. Positive thoughts going your way -- I've been in your shoes. Hugs (as appropriate) and positive mojo flowing through the Wi-Fi toward you...
Posted by: Daisy | February 16, 2008 at 12:35 PM
Thanks ladies! I feel it comin!!!!
Posted by: The Mentor Mom | February 16, 2008 at 02:13 PM
Ugh. I am sending mojo, prayer, and empathy. When our youngest (now 2 1/2) was a few months old my husband lost his job. He worked in construction - not such a good time to lose your job in that industry. We hunkered down, put sweaters on and turned the heat down and knew something better was on it's way.
OK we didn't know that, but we hoped, and hope is huge. And we were right, and you will be fine, just hang in there. I am the daughter of two social workers so I know you must be really uncomfortable with being on this side of things, but trust me, you will be OK.
Posted by: Jen@BigBinder | February 17, 2008 at 07:01 PM
When my husband (the insurance provider and bread winner) lost his job, I received some seriously powerful mojo from a wise and wonderful woman. She reminded me that God is in control, and if things were dark and confusing, it was because He had something wonderful and amazing planned for our family. She also told me to breathe deep and continually ask myself, "Who has my worries today?" Guess what, she was sooo right. So here I am to remind that wise and wonderful woman that she and her family are loved and adored by their Father and that He has amazing and wonderful things planned for them. Hang on. Have faith. Be patient. Love your family. And most important, LET GOD WORK HIS WONDERS. I will be praying for you guys. I know, I know, I know!!! that all will be well. But if you need any help during the journey, let me know.
Posted by: Shannon M. | February 18, 2008 at 01:34 PM
Sniff, sniff, you guys are just the best :)
Posted by: The Mentor Mom | February 19, 2008 at 10:32 PM